My Passion is Parenting…
And welcome to Happy Me Parenting!
Chances are if you have landed on my page your wanting to learn more about Conscious Parenting and being the parent your child needs you to be.
I remember myself coming across conscious parenting shortly after my first daughter was born in 2015 and I was OBSESSED with learning as much as I could. Being an all or nothing kind of person I spent every chance I could (when my daughter would nap) reading about ALL things conscious parenting. I ditched my Gina Ford books (sorry Gina!) and deep dived into a new paradigm of parenting.
Becoming a Mum has been the most transformational spiritual journey I have ever been on and I’m in constant gratitude and awe that I have been gifted two beautiful daughters.
As I decided to be a full time stay at home/working mum (I also own a tea business) I made it my mission to learn as much as I could about parenting. The thing is there’s plenty of parenting books out there - but the best teachers are in fact our children. When we shift from the traditional parenting approach moving away from threats, rewards and punishments and we move into the peaceful parenting space we actually start to see our children for the unique spirits they are.
When we understand that our children dance to the beat of their own drum we stop seeing them as mini extensions of us and then we can fully allow them to be themselves.
Because how many of us really felt seen, heard, valued, respected, understood growing up? (Note: if you spent any of your teens/twenties, numbing out on alcohol, drugs, gambling or any other addiction chances are you’re parents weren’t able to emotionally coach you through life which is why you turned to substances to avoid sitting with feelings)
Our parents did the best they could with the self awareness and resources they had but for many of us we had parents who failed to emotionally attune to us and didn’t really allow is to be the true essence of ourselves (which is why we spend a big chunk of our lives trying to find ourselves).
Through conscious parenting we can prevent our children from feeling lost, lonely, not seen, not heard - because we are fully equipped to pick up their cues for connection.
Humans are relational beings and we ALL crave CONNECTION.
It excites me because I believe the world is waking up to a new wave of consciousness and that we CAN and WILL change the future generations by becoming conscious parents. We have information at our finger tips and we can seek out the positive changes that we need to make.
After reading hundreds of books, gaining certifications in Life Coaching, NLP and most recently qualifying as a Conscious Parenting Coach it’s my life’s passion to work alongside other parents that want to break generational parenting patterns by becoming more conscious.
I am here so you don’t have to do it alone as it’s not always easy to create your own learning path and I know not everyone has the time that I had to read all the parenting books or to invest in studying.
A Bit About Me
My name is Fiona Ng and I live in the North East of England with my two daughters (age 2 and 4).
I’ve been a stay at home working mum for 4 years so I know that the struggle is REAL when it comes to parenting.
I help parents like you who know some changes need to be made but just don’t know where to start. I know not every parent has the time nor desire to consume and read all the parenting books. The books are great but I know radical changes weren’t made in my own family until I decided to go all in with my own parenting.
Perhaps you grew up and feelings were never talked about? Maybe you were parented in the strict authoritarian way where you were to be seen and not heard so now as an adult you don’t know how to express or verbalise your feelings healthily and this is having a negative impact on your own children. Maybe your pacify your children with electronic gadgets more than you would like but you just cannot cope. I get it, I’ve had my fair share of parenting struggles but now i navigate through my parenting days with a lot more peace and calm.
Hope is not lost regardless of how old your child is. You’re on my page because you have the awareness and you just need a bit of guidance to form those deeper connections with your child. Help with setting and sticking to healthy boundaries and tools so you can emotionally coach your child so they can go through life knowing how to regulate themselves and develop self discipline.
The question is are you ready to radically transform your family and your child’s future for the better?